Ventin On Relationships...

Well, u all knew it was coming. lol

No blog is complete without venting on relationships. Whether they just be thoughts, personal life experiences, hopes, dreams or opinions... Relationships seem to be on everyone's top 10 list of shit to talk about.

And I guess while listening to some bitter ass songs today about having loved & lost, old feelings surfaced and I began to think about this thing we call "L.O.V.E." and why we allow it to come in and destroy our lives. LoL

It's like, we long for it... we want it... we crave that shit. Why? I'll never know. And even for those few people who, like myself, never go looking for it... that shit creeps up on u and sends u for a loop. Like, I don't get it... I don't see how you can just be single & happy as hell one day, just loving life... then outta the blue some idiot bumps into you and changes your life as you know it, forever.

Yea the first few weeks/months are bliss. Ecstacy and Euphoria to the 10th degree and you think you're in love. Hell you may actually be in love. You just wanna be everything to this person... you wanna love him/her(unisex, no homo) with everything in you and just never let go. Then one day she or he gonna flip the script and stop taking your calls, never responds to txt, or sleeps with your best friend or some other trifilin shit and your world is crushed. Like, not crushed, but CRUSHED. And now you're left with a cold cracked hollow piece of shit that you once called a heart.

And it's like, I don't think people today are anything like the people of years ago. The people that actually realized that relationships aren't all about YOU, but they're about two individuals working together for a greater good & peace of mind. They go around acting like you don't matter, doin whatever with whoever and coming back to you like nothing's different. And when the bitch get caught, she/he flips the script on you like YOU were somehow WRONG for giving a damn about them.

Like, I don't get it... I believed in everything ya did & everything you said. When you'd say "I love you" and when you said I was different from other niggas... Like I actually stood out & I just wasn't another DICK. I believed in all of that... But maybe that was my fault... I dunno.

I used to wonder why people would say a person has wronged them in the past and that's why they don't deal with relationships now. The reasons they say they wouldn't trust anyone. I guess I understand now. There are a lot of assholes in the world that really don't give a fuck about you. Nobody is really required to give two shits about you or your feelings. So watch out for yourself first and foremost cuz no bitch/nigga is gonna do it for you. Real talk.

So next time you're with somebody and shit seems too good to be true... just remember:

IT IS 2008. TWO THOUSAND. AND EIGHT.

If it looks/sounds too good to be true, it probably is. You can't always trust the people you want to. Not saying to be an ass or walk around with a chip on your shoulder mad at the world... just stop bein so nieve and beliveing everything someone tells you... I dunno I'm kinda rambling now and it's become more of a personal venting post, lol, but it's MY blog and I'll be pissed if I wanna be... lol. But yea... relationships and love and shit is for the birds. Fuck that shit... I'm good.

Heh maybe I'm trippin... maybe it's just some miscommunication goin on between the two sexes... Either way, just somethin to ponder. Vent session over...


Disclaimer: This isn't about any particular person... more or less just about experiences I've had/experiences of friends or shit I've noticed... So nobody ask who I'm talkin about or gettin pissed off thinking it's you. Unless of course you actually did some fucked up shit to me... lol. But it's ok, I forgive you for it. LoL